Boost your Confidence in 7 Days

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We all have those days when our confidence level drops and for some, it is really hard to lift their confidence level up. Self confident is worth having. I lost mine before I gain it back sha.

One thing we find fascinating in human being is their confidence.

I gained my confidence back with a few tricks but you know not all that worked for me will suit you because we have our individual differences. So I came up with a plan. “Seven days to build your confidence”. I choose to break it down into our simple daily lifestyle. Read and apply. Do tell me how you feel about it.

So we start with…

My Birthday. My Relationship with Jesus (Testimony)

 Hello Reader, how are you doing? Today being December 10, 2014 is a remarkable day in my life. Many many years ago, around 12 am on a chilly Wednesday been 10th December, in the year 1987. My mommy gave birth to her first child and it was a baby girl, her cries brought smiles and joy in the hearts of many. That baby was me.

Years later, today the baby have grown to a young beautiful and independent lady. You want to know me. View my blogger profile…lol. Behind that beautiful face and successful being their was once pains, obstacles, challenges, victories and successes.

As God adds another year to my life, I love to use this opportunity to share my encounter with Jesus. I have known him for so many years but I never took him serious, though I regard him as the Almighty. Never for once have I surrender totally to him. I hear of him a lot, like he answers prayers, a miracle worker. I don’t recall having a personal encounter with him. That just it.

Relationship; Is your Choice...

Few days ago I learned of the break up of a close friend, she is a friend and a colleague. It was confirmed to me by her family. The devastating news didn’t only shock and sadden me, it hit our circle of friends especially us who grew up together watching their relationship like a big screen fairly tale love stories, hoping ours would be like theirs. How sad? They made me love “love” deeply especially from my girlfriend, she made me fantasize of an incredible handsome dude, that would look like a magazine cover model who would ask me out on a date or a relationship.

Infact, their break up highlights the fact that there is always an end to every love story.

Oly Diary: REASONS BEHIND MY LETTER TO RELATIONSHIP ADVISER

Heeeeyyy Reader, Welcome back here right on blogspot.com. it’s has been a lovely weekend as in I have been sleeeeeeping all through that my eyes got swollen. I swear if any man sees me now, he will run and not look back. I even saw my face on the mirror and I shoulded Jesuuuuuus. Anyway, on another note, It feels good to know that we are in December, the last month in 2014. Sorry I didn’t not wish happy new month is not my style though, but you will have a happy ending month of the year, say AMEN to this. My birthday is coming up soon and am getting old. Have you been reading my tweets so far? Do follow me on twitter @chatwitholy. Do you want us to discuss something personal and private? Email me as well on chatwitholy@gmail.com.

Did you read my letter to the relationship adviser the other day?  

Please before you read what you are about to read now, click Here to read on my letter to Relationship Adviser, this will help you understand what am ranting about.

Things to start doing by the time you are 30

Hello reader, welcome back here. I hope your days in the week so far are fantastic. Did you read my previous post? I hope you are enjoying my posts/chats so far.

Today I will actually not be doing my usual style, because I choose to share with you guys what I read on the internet written by Jesse Carey. Also, I know for a fact that this is the shortest post so far.

As the topic carries, when you are reaching 30 years obviously, you are considered old and not some sprigged chicken. So here it goes.

Do you think he loves me? Questions that answers that...

Hello Reader, welcome to relationship matters here on chatwitholy. The last post we had here was on Anger Management.

Disclaimer; Do not be upset, if I tell you that he does not love you, but to save myself from trouble. Am going to point out some questions directly to you, so you can decide whether he does love you or not.

Today, everything is coming from my heart, I think this is the chance for me to speak on this. Among my friends and I, it’s usually a debate topic. It always start with “Do you think he likes me?”, me knowing where they are driving to. I add ‘But’. The conversation becomes some sort of analysis of his actions, words etc.

From my observations from my male friends, I have learnt that men are not hard to understand. They may not be good with emotions or verbal communication, but they quite often communicate well by their actions. (“actions speaks louder than words”). This is a fact.

ANGER MANAGMENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

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Hello lovely people, I hope you guys are enjoying yourself so far on this chat. I’ve had quite a number of you cheering me on this blog and a few that laid complain on my blog design. I say, thank you all and will keeping blogging and trying to make it better. I am a work-in-progress.

I want to hit on anger management in relationships. You know it does not really take much to start creating relationship problems and damages. Anger is an emotion that everyone experience, but how you manage it in your relationship can either save it or damage it. Also being angry is not a sign that your relationship is about to sink. You know there is this certain point of anger that human begin reaches, we begin to loose our ability to function rationally. In science, they say ‘neuron chemical is being release to human brain and body’. This is why we say harsh words to our partner when we are upset and regrets later after we’ve cooled off?

Why do men masturbate?

The simplest and straight forward answer from me is masturbation is easy, fast and quick to clean up. How do they go about it? Get a copy of porn magazine or video perhaps search for a nude picture online then jerk it off. Once that is done. He is go to go!!

People usually say “not all men cheat”. But I will say, some men try hard to be good. What I meant is some men try hard to keep their dick inside their pant till they get home to their partner. This is where I think masturbation comes in handy.

Oly Diary : A letter to the relationship Adviser.

Dear Relationship Adviser,

How is it that one becomes singles and all of a sudden everyone meddles in their personal lives and become a dating expert. I want to ask? Biko, answer me. I ask again, how many married people are happy in their marriage? Or how many of them are enduring in it? Yet the singles are to emulate them and rush into marriage or any relationship.

On behalf of all the single ladies out there, I declare that we are tired of the questions about why are we still single?. Or when are we expecting a wedding invitation? and more so, we are tired of the relationship advice from every aspect of the media.

Do you want to know why? I’ll gladly tell you, is because you act as if we don’t have a plan for our own lives. Must you set a standard for us to follow suit? Hell NO!!

Let me explain why I’m angry at all of you.

Things you should know before you say 'I DO'...

Hello reader, welcome back!! I know we had a great day. The weekend fever is off and gearing to another one. Erm!! I did not get any response from our last chat, I hope we enjoyed what we read. Are you visiting for the first time? Or you missed my last chat, view it HERE. Please remember to drop your opinion on the comment section below. Your views matters a lot…

So you have seen Mr. Right, No, let me say it with the right emphasis, you have seen the drop-dead, gorgeous so Right man. He may have popped the question and you are almost done planning for the wedding or traditional wedding. Please take your time and read this, but share with others.

HOW TO DEAL WITH LONG DISTANT RELATIONSHIP

Hello Reader, welcome to my first chat post. I hope we will find something to learn out of it and please remember to drop your opinion on the comment section. Your views matters…

So there was this young guy that likes this girl, he made his first approach to her, it was successful and there might be a future between them but there comes a challenge – she lives in another country and here he is thinking of his chances to the alter with this girl if they embark on a long distance relationship.

Well, I have the chance to speak on this issue because I’m practically speaking from experience.